I have gigs as a substitute teacher in schools in the Helsinki metropolitan region and have noticed that both the world and schools are changing rapidly. ”It could be that the profession doesn’t even exist yet,” answers my 13-year-old son when I ask him what he dreams of becoming. He may well have hit the nail on the head. What kind of world will it be when they are adults? And what kinds of skills will they need in order to succeed?
It is certain that in the future schoolwork requires more than just cramming for tests. According to the latest research learning is closely linked to character and development. Developmental psychologists have found out that perseverance and self-regulation (self-control) are the skills that predict success at school even better than IQ.
Important strength with regards to learning is also empathy, or compassion. Compassion improves people’s relationships and helps us to get along with others. Research has found that experiencing and expressing compassion increases happiness and satisfaction.
A compassionate mind is strongly connected with improved learning.
Therefore, the study of self-knowledge or of, for instance, empathy skills, is nowadays considered to be an important guarantor of mental development and key to the achievement of a superior skill level.
Good news is that there are ways for a parent to help the child to improve these skills.
I had a chance to follow a fascinating new way of teaching in the classroom. A Finnish pioneering teacher with her colleagues have developed new ways to encounter children. I saw how child’s perseverance can be strengthen in practice. This visit to school changed my interaction with my child for I realized that perseverance, self-regulation and courage are skills that can be learned.
If you want to take a closer look at my visit to school and get the exercises developed especially for parents use, you are welcome to order my book by the link below.
This method works for children of all ages!
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